Doing things that Make A Statement. Doing things that are Cool Badass Things. Doing things that Will Show Them.
Is not something you should do at people who you theoretically are close to and can talk to about how you feel. Doing Things At people puts them on the outside reacting to what you’re doing instead of on the inside understanding how you feel.
If I provided examples then maybe people would actually understand what I mean, but I don’t really want to pin this on specific authors.