The amusingly long list of reasons why I’m not having sex with Awesome Hair Guy, although he did suggest the idea shortly after we first met.
- Initially when he suggested it, I just completely drew a blank. It was only later that I decided/realized/whatever that he was attractive. So I said no.
- He’s not great at communicating about his feelings.
- I’m friends with one of his exes and I don’t need that kind of awkwardness, too many of our acquaintances are already dating or exes.
- Or have unrequited crushes on each other. I think he’s actually busy pining over someone else at the moment.
- Hymen: still there, still un-stretchy. There is no chance I’m having PIV sex with anyone any time soon.
- His hands are really big compared to mine, I’m not sure even just one of his fingers would fit inside me.
- My clitoris and labia minora are really sensitive and I don’t always like being touched directly anywhere in that area (as opposed to through clothes, or outside of my outer labia.)
- I don’t like receiving oral that much, for the same reason.
- I don’t like giving oral that much.
- I’m not completely opposed to anal, but I’m not sure how much I’d enjoy it and I am kind of squeamish about germs.
So yeah. Even if there were any reasons in favor besides a basic level of attraction, the kinds of sex we could have are actually pretty limited! Propositioning me turns out to not be a great idea for Awesome Hair Guy!
Excuse me while I giggle about this.