Some actual TMI about things I find sexy and/or gross under the cut.
I just realized this.
I’ve literally never, in my whole life, had fetish-y sexual thoughts about, like, a random pregnant person I saw on the street.
Things I have done:
- randomly found written stuff about pregnancy arousing, when it wasn’t intended that way
- deliberately sought out pictures and written stuff about pregnancy looking for something arousing, some of which was intended as sexy and some of which wasn’t
Things I have not done:
- ever felt anything remotely sexual about an actual pregnant person I saw in real life, or even in TV/movies as far as I can remember
I have never even had to try? not to have those feelings about actual people I meet?
So like, fuck all you anti-kink people who think kink makes you constantly sexually objectify everyone around you. Context. It’s s thing.